You're the one who keeps everything running. You're capable, committed, and you rarely ask for help.

You're high-functioning, outwardly capable but inwardly depleted, and exhausted in a way that sleep doesn't fix.

I'm Kim Schloms, a Registered Clinical Psychologist and Advanced BWRT Practitioner, based in Southampton, and I provide a space for women who are ready to stop surviving and start living again. Not through years of open-ended therapy, but through focused, purposeful work with someone who understands what you're carrying — and knows how to help you put some of it down.

You're in the right place if something has shifted — and not in a way you chose.

It might be burnout, anxiety, or the aftermath of a serious illness or medical trauma. It might be the end of a relationship, or a slow grief for a life that didn't go the way you'd hoped. It might be something harder to name: a sense that you've lost yourself, and you're not sure who you are without the weight you've been carrying.

If any of that feels familiar, you're in exactly the right place. Women provide soft spaces for everyone else. This is yours.